As I sat
today sifting through the pages of my food memories, a very peculiar leaf
brought a smile to my face as the whole scene written on that page danced
before my eyes. The brightness of the day, the wide expanse of the backyard(so
it seemed to my little eyes at that time) of our paternal house, that custom
made cemented water tank with its heavy iron lid, a green patch running along
the width of the backyard and our all-purpose foldable cot - all of which may seem very insignificant but added up to
make a beautiful cherished memory. Oh yes, and there was that swing too which
was the last entrant in the backyard. It was very intelligently designed by our
father. The inverted 'V' on both the sides and the top horizontal bar were made
up of old poles of TV antennas of the olden times. Two iron hooks on the
horizontal bar held four chains and the loose ends of the chains had smaller
hooks which held the grooves of the cane seat.
I think I
have mentioned many times through my stories that the Sun in all its glory was
highly valued, almost revered by our mother. Her daily routine would begin much
earlier than the first rays of the Sun to gladly receive them. Her activities
in and around the house remained in close tandem with the trajectory of the sun
as it crossed our backyard. Though it was never specified explicitly but It was
almost sacrilegious to be sitting in the rooms in artificial light when natural
light was abundantly available outside. I think, all through the school years,
especially till 10th class, I have studied in the backyard during the daytime.
It was only in higher classes, when I sought complete isolation while studying,
that I started sitting in a closed room even during the day.
Here I
would like to mention the role that the backyard played in our lives as we were
growing up. It was a very significant extension of our house which happened to
be open. The doors that opened up into the backyard were never bolted, and were
often kept wide open to facilitate the ease of movement in and out. Now that I
am writing about it, I think this small practice made all the difference in
seamlessly integrating the open space into the covered portion of the house.
In
summers, the days would begin very early in our home. It was almost a ritual to
go out in the backyard as soon as one left the bed in the morning. Reading
newspaper, having the morning tea, cleaning and chopping vegetables, running
the washing machine in a corner, studying or just lazing around - that area
would silently witness all. As the day progressed and the heat intensified, the
cool confines of the covered region gave refuge to us. But with sun going down
at dusk, the activities in and around the backyard increased again, almost
compensating for the time lost because of blazing heat.
In
winters, however, the routine almost reversed, chilly mornings and evenings
were spent indoors but the golden sun was diligently chased as soon as its rays
made their appearance in the backyard.
How can I
miss mentioning one very significant aspect of mother's routine? I have grown
up seeing two big copper plates (thaali) in our kitchen. The bigger out of the two had raised edges while the
smaller one was a flat plate. They were taken out when some spices, vegetables,
grains and similar such were to be
handpicked or dried in sun. In fact,
almost invariably one or both of them would be out for one thing or the other.
In the scene that is photographically engraved in my memory, I clearly see
those plates with some contents lying on the lid of the cemented water tank,
although their position kept changing, following the path of sunrays in the
backyard. From time to time mother would buy whole spices for Punjabi garam
masala. The same were first diligently
handpicked, spread on those plates for sunning and then taken to the nearest
flour mill for grinding. Somehow those plates with a variety of contents in
them very subtly contributed to making - that backyard a well inhabited place
and our house a home.
Even as I
set up my own home after marriage, I never used the store bought garam masala
as mother would plan to keep it ready for me to take along during every visit.
This continued till the last year that she graced us with her presence. I have
started using store bought garam masala and sometimes I prepare it at home too
but for me, garam masala means much more than the final garnish on a cooked
dish.